I find the female mind to be completely absurd in all facets. And I say this strictly because I am a female myself. My heart and soul seems to be completely devoted to the wrong thing...well more like the wrong group of people.
I told myself that I would never write anything that even has the slightest relation to love or a strong "like" on my blog...but I can't help it. I'm that pathetic.
Females seem to always be attracted to the "wrong guy." You know, the guy that has all the friends, the guy that sweet talks you for a good week or two and then suddenly your going out, that guy that breaks your helpless adolescent heart into tiny, microscopic pieces? That guy. And its the same guy you always fall for. And quite frankly, it sucks.
It's sorta funny too. Because for some odd reason, we think that being bombarded with crap from our so-called lover is what leads to our personal happiness.
It's a fake sense of the word "happy." We think we're happy because we have the attractive guy, the guy that every girl wants. We feel proud, popular, and most of all, empowered.
This "empowerment" is also a fake feeling. We feel strong and full of life. But don't become easily persuaded, it's only a front. We're not happy. We're miserable.
Why?
Well, it's a commonality in these types of relationships that the guy is very flirtatious, cheats excessively, and treats the girl terribly. The girl has unfortunately convinced herself that he indeed loves her and is just exhibiting stubbornness.
Stubbornness? Temporary? Nope. Permanent.
A permanent stubbornness. Can we really handle that? Apparently, we can, because we stick with the guy with high hopes that he might, possibly change.
Suddenly, a streak of niceness! The guy becomes nice, respectful, thoughtful. Maybe the girl was right. Maybe he was just going through a phase...
Then, the absurd occurs.
He wants the worse from you. And we all know what this thing is.
What is a girl to do? He claims that if you love him, you will. But do you love him?
No, you don't. Love is a word that tends to be tossed around lightly in this generation. But the word "love" is a strong word. To make that claim is basically signing your personal sentence.
Let's analyze this situation...he's treated you like crap, flirted and cheated with other girls, and went through a "stubborn" phase.
Now...do you love him?
No, I didn't think so.
Girls need to be more thoughtful and less nonsensical. They need to learn how to not let a fake sense of love mask their common sense.
I've had many experiences in which I've been blinded by a strong like. I thought it was the best feeling in the world, but I gained sense, and got out of any situation that would possibly jeopardize my future.
I just hope that girls like me will realize that their happiness is tainted by a false sense of the word "love" and by some hormonal guy that has absolutely no life.
And please, let's gain some intelligence here.
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